Advice

My husband has been gambling since the day I met him. The past year or so it has gotten out of control. He has been going to a sports bar that has machines and can be there for hours. He was going at least four times a week until I started telling him how upset that made me. He still goes every weekend and is there for a great amount of time. It has affected our marriage and even though I begged him to stop he considers it the only form of relaxation. He has a secret bank account that he won’t let me have access to and when I ask him to see it he gets so defensive. He spends a lot of money and time away from his family. I’m all of of options and I really don’t know how to handle things. He denies he has a gambling problem.